Nobody said the divorce process was easy—but know life after divorce is possible. During a divorce, you’ll be faced with several important decisions that will ultimately affect your life both short- and long-term. Keeping your financial security in mind will make all the difference.
Do: Know your standard of living will change—make a realistic budget to adapt.
While you’re used to having two incomes, it’s not impossible to live on one. Know that your standard of living will likely be changed and, ultimately, be negatively impacted after divorce. Proper planning is key! Working with a budget or financial planner specializing in divorce will help you determine your best options for closing the standard of living gap.
Don’t: Assume the parent with more custodial time should keep the family home.
Deciding who gets to keep the family home can be an extremely difficult and emotionally draining process—especially when there are children involved. Keeping a small slice of your life together—a sense of normalcy—might seem like the best decision at the time, but it might not always be financially sound. It’s important to be realistic and know what you can and cannot afford.
Do: Close all joint back accounts before finalizing your divorce.
Nobody wants to unnecessarily share debt. By closing all bank accounts before the divorce is finalized, you’ll be better off protecting your assets in the long run. Yes, you’ll still have to pay off anything left in joint accounts, but the sooner you close these accounts and begin opening separate ones, the sooner you’ll begin building credit on your own.
Don’t: Decide financial issues one at a time.
Are you thinking about taxes? Capital gains? Investment losses? Timing issues? Inflation? This is extremely important. By looking at each asset or source of income separately, you may overlook one or all of these important factors that will eventually come into play. Look at a comprehensive picture of your finances to arrive at a fair settlement—this will help you better understand how each and every financial decision you make affects another decision.
Do: Consider your long-term financial stability.
Don’t only focus on immediate tasks! Yes, splitting assets and getting child support might be in the forefront of your mind, but consider your financial future years from now. Again, working with a financial planner can help you review any proposed settlement agreements before signing. This will help you consider long-term financial consequences.
Don’t: Assume equal division of property is fair.
Did you know: assets that generate income may be worth more than their market value? Just because you come to an agreement that both you and your spouse will receive property worth equal monetary value doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll be receiving a true share of the assets over time. Pay attention to details!
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